“I want you
to call home at least once a week,” Margaret Davenport said, searching through
her shopping bag-size purse for a tissue as she choked back her tears.
“I promise,”
Scott Davenport said.
“And remember
to eat.” Margaret dabbed the tissue at her moist eyes. “It’s cafeteria food,
and it may not be as good as home cooking, but it’s food. And it’s paid for.
You have to keep up your strength.”
“Yes, Mom.”
Scott sidled his eyes to his father, who avoided eye contact with him. “I’ll be
fine.”
“I don’t want
you drinking.” Margaret’s voice was sharp. “You’re here to get an education.”
“Mom …”
“And be
careful. The devil’s going to tempt you at every turn, but I don’t need any
more grandchildren yet.” Margaret gasped and covered her mouth with her hand,
her eyes wide open. “Oh, dear, I guess I don’t have to worry about that. Just
be careful then.” She rushed towards Scott and drew him into a crushing
embrace. “Oh, my baby.”
Scott loosely
returned the hug and pushed back. “I’ll be fine, and I’ll be careful.”
“And find a
church.” Margaret blinked magnificently. “There’s got to be a decent Baptist
church nearby.”
“We should
get on the road,” Terrence Davenport cut in as he watched the tears roll down
his wife’s pumpernickel face. He extended his hand to his youngest son and
said, “If you need anything, just call.” He continued, in a whisper so that his
wife couldn’t hear, “Do call your Mom. It’ll make my life easier.”
Scott nodded,
and when he went to let go of his father’s hand he fumbled to hang on to the
roll of money his father was slipping to him. He said, “Thanks,” and slipped
the bills into his pocket.
“All right,
let’s roll,” Terrence said to Margaret, and moved to open the passenger side
door of the silver Land Rover.
“Your father
will put money into your account every two weeks,” Margaret said as she was
getting into the car.
“Margie!” Terrence
huffed, and closed the passenger side door. “Good luck, son,” he said as he
made his way around to the driver’s side and got into the vehicle. “I thought
we agreed on once a month …?”
Scott
laughed, and took a couple of steps backwards as the engine flipped and the car
rolled backwards. He waved, and felt both excited and terrified as the car sped
down the narrow street and came to a stop at the intersection. As the car
turned right, Scott’s mother stuck her arm out the window and waved. Finally, Scott
thought when the car and his parents had disappeared out of sight. Scott was,
at last, on his own, free to do as he pleased, and he had big plans for his
newfound freedom.
The bright
September sun was warm against Scott’s caramel skin as he walked leisurely
along Willcocks Street towards New College residence, which he would call home
for the next eight months. He studied the buildings along the route, some built
with large grey stones, other with red brick, or the newer structures made of
steel and glass. He would sometimes stop and, with an almost child-like wonder,
scrutinize a building’s architecture, amazed at how so many pieces came
together — metal, brick, wood — to form something whole. Scott wanted to feel
whole, like he was a part of something. And when he saw his reflection staring
back at him in a street-level window, Scott would move on. Often he didn’t
recognize himself in the reflection. There was a part of him that didn’t
completely exist.
But this was
a day of new beginnings, where repressed desires would be allowed to unfurl and
peel away a season of nerves. Scott, who was eighteen or soon-to-be, would
willingly give himself over to this new city, let it “claim” him, set in motion
the transformation from boy to man. That was why he had fled — and it was a
sort of fleeing — to Toronto. He had wanted to live off campus, where he could
take possession of himself, live-out some of his secret fantasies. Maybe his
mother had sensed that “darkness” in him, and that was why she had wanted him to
stay in Ottawa? But Margaret didn’t want to think about that, but if Scott was determined to study in Toronto, she insisted
that he live in residence. That was the condition for any financial support. Residence,
as far as Margaret was concerned, was “safer,” both for Scott and his soul.
Crossing over
Spadina Avenue, Scott thought about the emotional goodbye at the car with his
mother. The scene had surprised Scott, who was used to his mother’s sentimental
ways. But the way she had hugged him was different, like it had a certain
transformative power. Perhaps she was trying to purge the devil from him,
reclaim his soul. That made Scott smile as he turned onto the pathway leading
to the entrance to the residence. At least Scott and his mother were talking
even though at times their relationship felt strained. Scott adored his mother,
but when he told his parents a year ago that he was gay, Margaret was shocked.
Devastated, actually. She could not look at Scott without crying, and when
Scott came into a room, she’d rush out.
“Give it
time,” was how Terrence had put it when Scott came to him about the way his
mother was evading him. “It’s just the shock, but she’ll come around.” But
Scott couldn’t wait. He felt cut off, discarded like a bad poker hand. “Give it
time” was hard advice to swallow when Margaret couldn’t make it through the
suppertime meal without crying. But after a lengthy discussion when Scott had,
for the first time in his life asserted himself, Terrence agreed that,
temporarily, Scott could stay with his Uncle Norman.
Norman Clarke
had been more like a father than a brother to his younger sister. Margaret was
eight when their father died and, although Norman wasn’t the eldest, he was the
eldest of the children still living at home. He eagerly stepped into the
protector role. When it came to Scott and the homosexual question, Norman
sought purposely to intervene. Norman’s middle son, Tyler, was gay, and the
news — only four months after he had buried his wife — was too much to handle.
Norman threw Tyler out of the house, declaring bolding, “My son is dead.”
Norman immediately felt guilt, followed by remorse. But before Norman could
apologize, Tyler had packed what he could into a duffel bag and left the house.
Years went by without Norman knowing if Tyler was dead or alive. Norman
eventually hired a private detective, who tracked Tyler down in Vancouver. The
reunion was not “joyous” but Tyler and Norman managed to, on some level,
maintain a fragile and temperamental relationship. Norman wanted more for Margaret
and Scott, more than the strained, five-minute phone calls on birthdays or
cards at Christmas. Norman, even now, felt as though he had “lost” his son but
remained convinced that Margaret still had a chance to hang on to hers.
Margaret,
schooled in the “old-fashioned ways,” did not understand the homosexual
question. She prayed daily for understanding, for the Lord her God to give her
the strength and courage to understand. But more than her belief in God, it was
Margaret’s anchor in the Holy Scriptures that made it so that she wasn’t
necessarily open to such understanding. But Margaret loved her son, who
secretly had always been her favourite, and so she continued to pray and asked
for God’s direction. That was because deep down, when Margaret had had time to seriously think about it, she knew that
Scott had always been somehow different from her other sons, Neal and Frank.
It was
shortly after Scott’s fifteenth birthday, and Margaret had just finished
folding the laundry. There were a couple of Scott’s T-shirts in the pile that
she carried upstairs. Normally, Margaret simply placed the boys’ clothes on
their bed for them to put away. But this time Margaret had decided to put the
T-Shirts away herself. Margaret opened the middle drawer of Scott’s dresser to
see each shirt folded like it was on display at Holt Renfrew. The shirts were
divided into piles by colour, and then, as Margaret had correctly deduced, by
season. She opened the top drawer to find Scott’s underwear all folded the same
way, and similarly his socks. Margaret closed the dresser drawers and left the
T-shirts on the bed. She had wanted to probe Scott about what she had seen but
she never dared to ask.
But there
were other signs, too, of Scott’s differentness. When Neal and Frank had hit puberty,
they talked nonstop about girls. Frank and Neal had taken up soccer and
baseball in their youth, and eagerly looked forward to the annual guys’ trip,
to either Montréal or Toronto, to see an NHL game. Scott had taken painting and
figure skating lessons, and was less enthusiastic about the annual trip with
his father and brothers. So Scott was different, that didn’t seem to faze
Margaret until Scott had said the words, “I’m gay.” That stunned Margaret, sent
her spinning.
Two months
after Scott had moved in with his Uncle Norman, Margaret had sent Terrence to
collect their son. The shock had worn off, the tears had stopped, and when
Scott walked back into his childhood home, Margaret rushed to her son and held
him in a clenching embrace. Scott looked searchingly at his mother, hesitant to
accept that his mother could accept him as he was. Even if Margaret didn’t
understand or really “accept” the situation, she knew that with Scott back at
home she could monitor his comings and goings. Margaret worried that Norman had
let Scott do as he pleased — that that would be Norman’s way of doing right by
Scott where Norman had failed his own son.
But after
moving back home, Scott soon found out just how different his life would be.
His weekend curfew had been rolled back to ten from midnight. At that time in
his life, Scott’s best friend was Edward Doyle, and they hung out together a
lot. When Edward’s parents travelled, Scott crashed at Edward’s so that Edward
didn’t have to stay with a relative. After Scott had come out, and Margaret had
seen the way that Scott and Edward looked at each other, Margaret understood
the true nature of their “friendship.” Scott was ordered to sever all contact
with Edward, but Scott remained faithful to his friend. Conversations didn’t
come easily to Scott and Margaret like they used to, and at Margaret’s
prompting they made an appointment to see a therapist. Scott, unable to listen
to his mother’s sobbing, walked out midway through the session with the
Christian psychologist. And then there was the question of church. Scott would,
and Margaret stood her ground on this, attend church faithfully on Sunday
mornings. While Scott was glad to be “home” again, his life had been regimented
like a convict serving out his time at the Millhaven Institution.
Scott entered
the residence building and leisurely climbed the stairs to the third floor. He
opened the door to the long corridor, and the animated voices rushed at him.
Parents were carrying boxes and suitcases into the new homes of their children,
mothers were crying, younger brothers and sisters were screaming and laughing
as they ran up and down the hall. Scott’s room was located about midway down
the corridor. He was trapped behind a guy carrying two boxes with two full
plastic bags balanced on top of the boxes. One of the bags fell and Scott
intervened to catch it.
“Got it,”
Scott said, and followed the guy down the hall.
The guy
stopped in front of the door directly across from Scott’s room. He made a play
for the doorknob but was unable to reach it. He looked hopelessly at Scott and
said, “Could you get the door?”
Scott said,
“Sure,” and stepped in front of the guy. Scott pushed the door open wide,
standing off to the side to let the guy pass through.
“Just toss
that anywhere,” the guy said as he set the boxes down on the floor by the
window. He made his way towards Scott, who was still holding the door open and
clutching the bag in his hand. The tall man extended his hand and said, “I’m
Chad.”
Scott
accepted the firm handshake. “Scott.”
“Thanks for
saving the day earlier,” Chad said and took the bag from Scott.
“No worries,”
Scott said and slipped his hands in his pockets while he and Chad stared
intently at each other. “I should go and try to settle in a bit.”
“Are you
first-year?” Chad said, and ran his free hand through his brown hair.
“Yes. A
potential English major.”
“Ah … An
aesthete.”
Scott smiled
faintly. “Hardly.” Then, in a pointed tone, he said, “What about you?”
“Biology
major,” Chad said, with confidence. “And afterwards, med school.”
“Well, good
luck with that,” Scott said, somewhat dismissively, and backed out of the room.
He moved across the hall, jammed the key in the door and pushed down on the
door handle in one sweeping movement. He rushed into the room and closed the
door quickly to block out the rowdiness. He looked through the peephole to see
Chad standing in his doorway. After a moment Chad disappeared into his room, the
door swinging closed on its own.
Scott
advanced into the room and sat down on the bed. Anxiousness replaced the excitement
he had felt earlier. How was he supposed to live in this tiny room with cement
walls? The room felt cold and lifeless, but maybe it wouldn’t be that different
from his last year at home. His bedroom had become a sort of cell since his
mother feared that he slept with all of his male friends. But at home Scott had
his photos and trophies and his books. He had brought very little of the
ornaments and knickknacks that decorated his bedroom. He knew that he would
have to find a way to feel at home, give himself over to the room.
And what
about Chad? Would they become friends, or perhaps something more? Scott
immediately dismissed the “something more,” laughing, because Chad was not his
type. But Scott, who was still rather inexperienced when it came to sex, could
he really have a type? Then Scott tried to imagine what his mother would think
of Chad, and he burst out laughing. That would be a rather awkward scene … for
Chad.
Scott slid
his body backwards until his back rested against the cool, cement wall. There
was a change already occurring in him, and the anxiousness was beginning to
ebb. On his own, away from his family, this was Scott’s time to prove to his
family, and perhaps more so to himself, that he could stand on his own. He had to
in order to shed his mother’s perception of him, that he was her baby still in
need of mothering. That was why he had worked two jobs over the summer, to earn
his own spending money for the year. He had amassed a sizeable amount that he
thought he would use mostly for travelling back and forth between Toronto and
Ottawa. He had been awarded a scholarship that covered his tuition, and his
parents paid for his residence and meal plan. Sometimes Scott wondered if his
parents were proud of him. His brothers hadn’t gone to university and Scott
thought that if he could get a degree, perhaps even go on to do graduate
studies, that his parents, his mother especially, would see beyond his gayness.
After a time
of just sitting there, Scott moved off the bed and began to unpack his
belongings. He plugged in his CD player and hit the play button. He sighed
frustration as Mahalia Jackson’s voice overtook the room as she sang, “As the
Saints Go Marching In.” Margaret had inserted the CD without Scott knowing.
Scott removed the CD and replaced it with one of Tracy Chaplin’s. He hung up
his clothes in the closet, which were organized in the same manner as they had
been at home. He made the bed, taped a couple of posters to the cement walls
and arranged his dictionaries and notebooks on the bookshelf above the desk. He
cleaned his washroom, and was thankful that he didn’t have to share. He had
just put away the cleaning supplies when there was a knock on his door. His
heart thumped as he pulled opened the door. “Oh …”
“Interested
in grabbing a beer?” Chad said, and shoved his hands in his jeans pockets.
“I’m not old
enough yet,” Scott said.
“Then how
about a bite to eat?”
“I’m on the
meal plan, and the food is supposed to be good.”
Chad shook
his head. “Let me explain how this works. I’m new here, you’re new here. You
helped me out earlier, so that kind of broke the ice between us. I don’t know
about you, but I don’t know anyone here yet. So you say, ‘Yes, sounds like
fun,’ and grab your wallet and keys, and maybe you’ve made a new friend on your
first day in residence.”
“Sure.” There
was a hint of reluctance in Scott’s voice as he went to retrieve his wallet and
keys from his desk. He turned off the music and headed towards the door. In the
hall, he pulled the door closed and locked it. Scott, who was six foot, felt
short next to Chad, who was taller.
Chad led the
way to the stairwell. They barrelled down the three flights of stairs and edged
their way through the crowded lobby before emerging outside, squinting at the
bright afternoon sun. They navigated their way towards Bloor Street and went
into the first Starbucks they came upon. Scott ordered a latte and Chad, opting
for a chai tea, handed over a twenty-dollar bill to the cashier to pay for both
drinks.
“Thanks,”
Scott said, and went to collect his drink at the far end of the bar. He took
his beverage and made his way outside to the small, street-side patio. He moved
quickly to secure the table being vacated by a grey-haired man and sat down.
Scott was nervous. Chad made him nervous, and Scott wasn’t sure why that was.
Scott wasn’t looking for another friend,
at least not in the way that he and Edward had been friends. Was Chad even gay?
And did that matter?
Chad said,
“So where are you from?” as he sat down at the table.
“Ottawa,”
Scott said dryly. “You?”
“Calgary.”
Chad lifted his paper cup into the air and said, “Cheers!”
Scott picked
up his drink and echoed, “Cheers,” and took a sip.
Chad sat back
in the plastic chair and stretched out his legs. “Why did you choose U of T?”
Scott
shrugged. “The scholarship, a chance to live in Toronto, be away from home and
family.”
“I understand
that,” Chad said. “I just want to be myself and not have to pretend to be
someone else.”
They laughed.
Chad brought
himself forward in his chair and reached for his drink. “Did you leave anyone
behind?”
Scott said,
“I’m not sure what you mean?”
Chad smirked.
“I mean, were you seeing anyone?”
“Oh!” Scott
shook his head. “No. It was a clean break.”
“Lucky you.”
Chad fell back in his chair. “I thought Paul would follow, but in the end he
decided to stay in Calgary. Wasn’t ready to leave the nest.”
“Oh …” Scott
looked down, holding his gaze to his lap.
“Don’t
worry,” Chad said, askance. “This isn’t a date.”
Scott looked
up. “Edward went to McGill. It wasn’t serious between us, but I needed to be
farther away than that. Montréal seemed to close to home.”
Chad was
smirking. “I thought so.”
“But this
still isn’t a date,” Scott insisted. “Just two friends out for a coffee
together.”
“So now we’re
friends?” Chad chuckled. “What are you going to do with an English degree?”
“Write,
proofread, edit …” Scott smiled thinly. “Not all doctors can write.”
“Ha-ha.”
Scott and
Chad never stopped to think about how, in such an unfamiliar way, a friendship
had been born. The afternoon slipped away as they laughed and joked, sharing
stories about their families, cautiously revealing their hopes and dreams. They
were surprised how easy it was for them to talk to each other, how quickly they
had let their guards down. After two lattes and two chai teas, they headed back
to the university in time to eat before the cafeteria closed. They spent the
evening in Chad’s room, listening to music and drinking scotch while playing
cards. It was close to one in the morning when Scott stumbled across the hall
to his room. He collapsed onto his bed, feeling hopeful about the days ahead,
and about the new friend who had just come into his life.
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